Why Crying Over Spilt Milk?

In one hand, how many of you agree with me saying that love is not everything? On the other hand, to those who agree with me, how many of you still not giving up hope and hoping for a fairy tales-kind of relationship? Well, I know this guy who takes everything very seriously but when comes to relationship, he feels very helpless even though he loves his girl friend very much~ To guy, relationship is a must in sense of they need someone to be by their side to share their happiness, sorrow and to support them~ It seems like without a partner, they will end up being lonesome and face all things alone~ How true am I? I wonder~

I once came across with one guy who took friends very seriously. I was very curious with his answer and I asked him for clarification to clear my doubt.Without thinking any further, he told me that there is no everlasting love~ He said he realized the importance of friends ever since his first girl friend left him. He was once sacrificed everything for love, poor thing the girl friend not knowing how to appreciate... His friends were upset by being neglected but they still support him throughout the way when he was down. Therefore, he expect his new girl friend to be understanding. His girl friend was disappointed as neglected most of the time.

Years later, his girl friend left him due to unknown reason and left him in confusion. He tried his very best to detain but her decision made remain unchanged~ This guy soon realize how much his girl friend had sacrificed for him and he willing to give away all his everything to get her back. He don't realize how cruel he was when he neglected her, how she passed her time? How she bear when he went back home with tiredness that couldn't even have a simple conversation with her? Gentleman, Rome was not built in a day~

As a guy, you might take other things much more importantly than your lover but at the same time, you too neglected how sensitive a girl towards LOVE. If you think you can't afford things that comfort your lover, at least, let her go~ In reality, there are many different kind of person~ Some take family very importantly, some take friends very vitally, some will take their career very seriously much more crucial than love, but at least don't treat your loved one in that low position~ It hurts some how.

There is now a friend of mine, she also a housemate of mine at the moment, she is dealing very good in her relationship~ Her lover treated her very good although love is not that important in some exceptional situation, but he managed it very well~ Let's bless this love birds happy ever in their life~

PS: There is forever friendship but no one assure that there is forever love~ Once the love is gone, it is gone forever. Be contented with what you have as no one assure you that there is a better one ahead of you~ Be protective to your lover, as once he/she started to bleed, it is hard to heal. Even if it healed, there is also an ugly mark left forever...